Dear Birthmother...

I wish I knew your name. "Birthmother" just sounds so...generic. We've thought about you for a long time. Wondered who you were. What you looked like. What you do for fun. We do know one thing about you. We know you're a beautiful person, inside and out. You must be since you so obviously love your baby so much. We can't wait to meet you someday, and give you a big hug! (Sorry, but we're huggers in this family!)

I honestly can't imagine facing the choice you face now. I'm sure you're struggling with so many things. And maybe you don't even know if adoption is the right choice, or the wrong choice. Steve and I both pray that God will strengthen you, give you peace, and guide you down the path that is right for you.

We put this blog together so you can learn about who we are. We want you to know that we are a loving, committed couple with a strong Christian faith that really shapes every part of our life. We have so much love to give, and can't wait to share that love with our future children. We want to give them every opportunity in life to succeed. Every opportunity to grow up healthy and happy. They already hold a place in our hearts, and you do too.


With all the love we have,

Steve and Melissa